Dating

o wat shud i do my bf says dat he is not in a relation with me when people n his friends ask....i herd this from others shall i ask him about dis or i just kept quite as i dnt know anything please help me......

RUN! There is someone out there that will not do that to you and you deserve more! Believe in yourself and trust your instincts... god gave you them for a reason.

You don't have to catch someone in the act of cheating to call it cheating. In my book you boyfreind has gone way past the boundries and I would consider his chats and talks with other girls as cheating. Its not acceptable... don't settle for this behavior, you deserve more!

Best whishes... Girl power!

Going through the sme thing and have been for many years, now I am thinking i cant take anymore. He says the women are only a friends but I found evidence that one had feeling for him at one time, she got mixed up!!!! now she doesn't, really?, because she is in a relationship. Her bf is suspicious of my bf calling her, perhaps he has seen the txt messages and this is why. My bf says i have trust issues and this is not his problem, well I think since he acknowledges the problem I have, he could stop calling her, but since he hasnt it has to be my decision to stay or leave, after 15yrs not an easy decision as we do love one another but cannot cope with the argueing.

i'm going through the same thing! and this is great advice!

Oh my gosh...finally...an easy one.

Okay...here is what youre guy is doing.

He is BORED with your relationship and he IS keeping his options open and even if he is innocent physically and spiritually and emotionally NOW.....its a babystep of things to come....

SO....what does a girl do when her guy is creating this virtual new black book of socializing with the opposite sex and hiding his phone because "he or she is innocent and has the right to talk to others and doesn't want to upset partner and does not have to stop the behavior" because its their free right and you ain't all that to command ......

What does a lady or a guy do?

Does she confront and tell how this upsets her...nope.
Does she whine and nag....nope.
Does she or he STOP giving him or her the time of day without any explanation at all so he has time to talk to these other women or men and make up his or her own mind about who he or she wants to be with so you can watch what choice he or she makes with his behavior and not have to be lied to anymore?

Checkmark.

So much easier.

I'm going through some craziness myself but not like yours..honestly if he loved you then he wouldnt need attention from anyone in any kind of way but you. i'm sorry but why does he need to be texting and calling other females? That's disrespecful and I'm sure he wouldn't approve of you doing those things with other men. You know we always look for answers from other people when really we already know what the answer is ourselves. I have one guy friend that I've been friends with for over 18yrs and we don't talk everyday, we don't tell each other i love you, we don't text and especially at night, heck we have never even been to each others home so your boyfriend is full of it and he's doing that because he knows you will allow it