Is it true if you let something go fate can bring them back or is that wishful thinking

So I dated this guy and fell in love everything was awsome then things happen we broke up and Lack of maturity was a huge factor as to why we no longer speak but my delima is Ive dated other guys since him and hes dated other girls since me however hes admited to be that he never stopped thinking of me! and I never stop thinking of him, I dont want to get back together rigt now hes too immature for me right now hes 20 im 22 but I cant help it, its like everyguy I date i compare to him and I mean i like them and the one Im with now is an amazing smart goodlooking and treats me amazing! but Ive dont have the same kinda rush i had with my ex, or the passion, or even the butterflies I feel content! So I guess my question is if its really true love will fate bring him back to me when the time is right or is it just wishful thinking?

If you are comparing your dates to your ex, then you're being unfair because they have to compete with someone constantly. You really should not be getting involved with others with your ex on your mind because you're just using them so that you can feel better.

I believe that if you love someone,you should allow them to go and grow,I know it is easier said than done,we tend to believe out of sight out of mind but that is not true,sometimes we get with the right people at the wrong time I call it the introduction. I also have to agree with the administrator if you find your self still thinking of someone else while with someone that is a bad sign and not fair to the person you are with,take some time to date your self work on you as an individual and see where that leads you,Good luck.

If it is just a matter of maturity or lack of it but you both acknowledge you feel the same I think you will be fine in the long run.

He will man up if he feels that strongly for you trust me, I did and still am.

Oh and I believe that yes true love does not go away and will provail.

Hope this helps.

Honest question - Is it common for year old post to be bumped for no reason? Been seeing them a lot lately