It kind of makes me sound really twisted...

I had fancied this boy for 2 years. He was my best friend and I had known him since year 8-He kind of got me out of a rough patch, and it was the closest thing to love I had ever felt.

And now we're grown up, 16, and my best friend, knowing how I felt about him, decided to worm her way in there and snatch him. She told me this by publicly playing tonsil hockey.

How kind and considerate of her.

So, obviously, what did I do? Burst into tears as soon as I can get away, only, Ho ho ho, best friend has followed me, sees, and smirks.

And later that night I get a nice email about how shes always been jealous of me and it's basically a letter of vengeance. Which I am perplexed by, because I don't really get jealousy in friendships because I think we're all equal.

Should I just flow with it? It has left me feeling a tad idiotic, to be honest.


Is it right for me to get jealous over this

Have you talked to him about what has happened?

I've tried, but he doesn't want to talk about it, he says he's heard enough from her.

Does that mean that he believes her over you?

Yeah, I guess so. But I suppose she could have said anything? I mean, I don't know what she's said.

I have a feeling it might have something to do with 'obsessing.'

best advice I can give is.. Cut ties with her immediately..any friend like that isnt a friend at all. As for the guy...If you 2 were as close as you say you were and he is willing to believe her over you..well then I think you know what you need to do...save yourself the pain and get over it.

I suppose you could try to have a sit down with him and explain things once this all cools down but honestly I would really consider just moving on...

Yeah that's what I've been thinking recently. I mean, I think its harder to get over him since we've been really good friends and all.

So I thought I might wait until it clicks that she's been lying.

how long you decide to wait is completely on you.. I personally would confront her in a calm manner and say what you need 2 say..then cut ties with her..

then when the opportunity presents itself id talk to him and tell him how you feel and how this situation has made you feel..and see what that does for you..

thats the best advice I can give ya

Thanks!

I'll do that...

No problem cutting ties with her...