I've been dating someone im really into for a few months now...

I've been dating someone im really into for a few months now, I'm ready to commit to a relationship but that person isn't & from what the person states when I speak on it who knows if they'll ever be ready, how long should I give this person? If no time @ all? Why?

What have you two been doing in "dating" for these few months? Have there been any problems?

I'm in that same situation. I've been dating this guy that I'm really into for 7 months and he has yet to ask me to be his gf. When I bring up that status of our relationship, he says "I broke up with my ex abt a year ago and I don't want you to be the rebound bc I care abt you a lot". I don't know what that means. When I try to talk abt the relationship, he gives me vague reponses. I'm willing to break things off with him bc I don't want to be anyones play thing and 7 months is a really long time to make a simple decision. Either you want to be with me or don't.