Just broke up with my girlfriend after three years

I was going with a girl since I left school. I am now 18 just about to turn 19. We broke up because of issue's such as arugeing all the time. It has been three weeks since we split and I have only spoken to her on the phone briefly. We used to spend pretty much all our time together and do everything together. I still do have friends but not friends that I can really hang out with as they only really socialise when getting drunk. I miss her a lot but i really don't think she's interested in making it work again. I last tried to call her a week ago and shes ignoring my calls and has now blocked me from her facebook. I know its not another lad as i know her friends. I just now feel like my life is going nowhere and that all i want is her back. I just really dont understand how one minute even though we where argueing she still seemed okay, has suddenly dropped me after three years and now doesnt want anything to do with me. I find myself constantly thinking about her. Just though i would ask who's been through this before and how they dealt with it. Thanks.

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I am going to tell you something that you don't want to hear. She has found another guy. My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago and said we would probably get back together. Then all of a sudden she blocked me on facebook and stopped returning texts and calls. The reason....she found a new guy.
Girls claim to be very in touch with their emotions, but it seems like they can more easily shed them than guys. I am sorry, but this is life and it's gonna be tough for a while. The worst thing you can do is lose your self-esteem. Keep positive and don't try too hard.....as soon as you stop caring about it, you'll find another one.

Who knows....maybe a better one. Also don't be mean....wish her luck with her new life. It is better to have this happen after three years, then after 10 or 20...etc

yeah you where right. She didnt leave me for another guy but hooked up with one two weeks later. But it was only a casual thing she said but still it hurt me to much. I have decided to leave her for good, maybe not talking to her forever will just do me good. Its been two months now and i havent had a day where i havent thought about her and now all i get is constant sick feelings about thinking of her with another man. I know there is plenty more fish in the sea ect ect, but i think that hurt me the most finding she had already been with another man guess thats life.

Women do not shed their feelings faster than men. What happened is it's easy to put your ex in a box for a while if you have someone else keeping you occupied. That's why rebounds are so powerful in a breakup. People get rebounds because it makes them feel better for a while. However, usually it is short-lived and the feelings surface again.

The mistake you made is sticking around speaking with her. Go on no contact like the rest of us. By no contact I mean: No texting, no brief phone calls, take her off facebook/myspace(don't look either!), intentionally bumping into her, etc. Do a complete cut off. She WILL wonder what happened. You're making it easy for her by being there. It will hurt, but it will also get better.