Lost Spark?

I broke up with my ex boyfriend about seven months ago. We have still been talking and the longest we have gone without talking is 8 days. Recently he has told me that he doesn't feel anything for me anymore and that he doesn't want me to be upset if he talks to somebody else and he won't be mad if I move on too.

However, this was very random because a few days before he told me that he doesn't feel anything anymore he said that he had feelings for me? I just dont get it? How am I supposed to get the spark back in our relationship? Any help would be great!

All relationships need to be kept sparky after glow wears off. If your able to do things out of the ordinary like a date night. A card on his car seat in the morning. Many things can be done to keep the spark there. It is a two way street though. He may not feel appreciated anymore. Sounds like you both got into the comfy cozy rut of a relationship and neither of you bothered to add some zing.