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Over the years I have seen lots of Friends (and myself, to be quite honest) Pine over The Mr Unavailable of the moment, whether he is the still loved ex, or the foxy scilent 
type that keeps you dangling.
Its not you its me… they stay, so you stick around, hope against hope that they will come around and realize how worth while it is for them to open their eyes and see the treasure before them.
You settle for being friends, (and can’t seem to hold out on the benefits…) thinking to yourself that something is better than nothing.
I have seen friends strung on like this for years (seriously) and they just can’t see that the friendship isn’t really quite that, and that if anyone needs to wake up and smell the coffee, its them - they need to get out and move on.
Baggage Claim has an excellent post on this subject called Can you stay friends with Mr Unavailable’s & Assclowns after you break up?- Part Three asking the very important question - Why Would you want to If any of this sounds at all familiar, check out her post - it might free you from a very long haul of wasted time and to little respect.
Yeah, but what does it say about you if you’re hanging out with assclowns, too? Oy! You just can’t win for losing.
Anyway, lots of good advice there.
Not such great things, I’m afraid…
Don’t waste your time waiting to see if this guy will ever want you, because he won’t. It really isn’t you, it is him because he’s dumb enough to let go of a girl who is willing to put in the effort only to receive nothingness in return.