My boyfriend and I get anong great and then when his kids co...

My boyfriend and I get anong great and then when his kids come over he lets them get away with everything and yells at me. I am supposed to move in with him next month and my issue is I have a exercise bike in the our bedroom which I don't want the kids to use because I don't want them in the bedroom. We are paying alot of rent for them to have their own rooms and I don't bother them. I want my own space. I will be paying rent too.

Why are you moving in with him when he yells at you?

He sides with the kids.... Am I asking too much because I don't want them in the bedroom? I have been with him for 9 years and he is great but I don't feel important when the kids are around. I think because he is not with them all the time he does not want to discipline them. I have a daughter in grad school and should be happy. I just need to know if I am asking for too much. He said the kids should be able to use the bike and if not then put it in the cellar. I have my tv in the room and it is my bike.

You are not asking for "too much." It is more than just not feeling important: he yells at you! I think that the kids aren't the only ones who lack discipline.

Thank you! I am not perfect..... but he wanted to move closer to the kids and I was doing that and giving up everything I worked hard for. I am older then he and I feel I treat him very good. Now today he has called three times and invited me over for dinner w/kids.. I am not going and I am sad. I also liked to keep things nice and he doesn't so that is our other problem. He says I clean all the time which I don't but when I do I enjoy it and don't bother him.

Do you think he wants out?

He seems to miss the point of asking you to have dinner with him and his kids. I think that he wants things to be his way even after you've treated him well.

Thank you for helping me .....I contacted where I rent now and going to see if I can stay longer here... I don't know if he is ready for me... and he also has said that his kids are more important. of course, I feel my daughter is the same but I never would say that to anyone, I always say they are equal but if she needs me I would be there for her and expect him to do the same. He also, gets mad and tells me to get out and then says that I am not happy. I really feel he isn't and wont say anything. He won't give me any affection with the kids around I don't think I deserve all this. Wish me luck

You're welcome. Even though he thinks that his kids are important, having it make you feel like this is another story.