my boyfriend(which said he loves me) just broke up with me yesterday!!

i was in love with this boy, and thats hard for me cuz usually i never loved a boy as much as i do him!! and well, it drives me nuts thinking if hes thinking about me.. i don't get why boys have to always be such jerks in the very end!!
and today he is saying oh i want you baq and then changeing his mind!!! i am confused, and stupid. what do i do?

How long were you together with him? Why did he break up with you? If you are thinking about taking him back again, make sure that he doesn't change his mind about you again.

I am having the same problem. I met my BF 2 weeks after he had a baby with his ex although they were on and off during her entire prenancy. I knew of him and wanted nothing to do with him. After friends tried hooking us up we both fell in love with each other he pretty much moved in with me after a week. On top of all this he has a second child with a one night stand which i know sounds horrible but he is a great guy. We dated for a year. He brought me into his one sons life since he doesn't have any contact with the one night stand son. He convinced me to move out of my condo and into a new condo with him wanted to get married looked at rings with me told me I was his soulmate wanted to spend every min with me became best friends with my father everything was perfect!! Until about 2 weeks ago he decided he needed time to think I guess because he thought I was treating him badly. I wasn't really treating him badly I had issues with his ex she hates me and trys running his life because she has a child with him. So I packed somethings to give him his space only to find a few days later he had started to pack my stuff out of his condo. I then called him upset and moved all of my stuff out of his place and thought it was the end. He proceeded to text me we text back and forth about stupid bull shit he blamed the break up on me saying I pushed him away by treating him badly and I explianed to him it was only because I had stuff on my mind and now that I have gotten it off you are closing the door on me. So we went a few days with out talking and I decided that I would be there for him since i know he was going through a lot with a ex GF that gives him trouble about seeing his son and I son that he has that he never see and I know he feels horrible about. So I decided I would text him back since a day before he had text me I think its time we sit down and talk. So I say hey I was goign to come get the rest of my stuff and maybe we can talk. He says going out. I said okay well one thing lead to another and we talked he told me that his life was f ed up and there was never a question in his mind if he wanted to be with me or not that he wanted to be with me we talked for about 2 hours and I decieded he wanted me to come over so I did. The next morning he said just move back in we texted each other all day he made me dinner bought me my favortie things at the gocery store ect. I even text him are you sure this is what you want he said never been so sure! So we were back tog. for five days living tog. he even insited going to my easter dinner with my entire family and my to go to his families. I felt tention something was different with us after a the first few days. He even packed his bag saying he needed to get away to clear his head but ended up coming back home with his son and staying the weekend with his son and me things were okay. THe last day we were tog. he we both decieded things were differnts with us and we both had walls up and were not sure why. We went to bed the next morning he text me did you think about our talk i said yes I thinks its best if i move out but we don't have to breakup he said I think that a good Idea since things are not getting fixed with us being living tog. so after a day of texting back and forth he got mad and decided he was going to pack my stuff once again and that it wasn't going to work. So it has been two full days without us talkign and it is killing me inside! I don't know what to do can anyone help me. He also dropped of my laptop with the song angle by jamey johnson minimized on the screen and a slide show of his son that he created on my computer minimized. I just don't know where to go from here do you think he will come back is it even worth it? Please help

Do you want these breakups to be a common thing? He was on and off with his ex and he has become on and off with you too. At least you didn't become pregnant.

im going thru that with my ex right now..he has now broken up with me 4 times, and i have a daughter with him...he did this same thing to his ex gf....and it seems everytime he leaves, hes leaving to go find someone else to sleep with, but i dont know for sure..he just told me the other day that he does still love me...but why if u love someone would you give up on them? id never dream of leaving him cause i love him more than life itself..he means the world to me......but i dont know what to do anymore..i just want him to come back to me forever..i cant see him with someone else its breaking my heart

My dad was like that when he was younger he used to be a player just to sleep with different women. I hated that even till now that i am older i dont now exactly what to tell you but that you shouldnt get envolve with him at all because i now that you love him that much but its best that your daughter as she gets older she wont see what type of dad she instead you can go out and find a good man who will love you and your daughter dont give up or let him stop you from continueing life. your daughter needs you to be strong so do that for her.