my ex and i are now friends does it mean she wants me back???

Getting to the point i met a girl at a job in 2005 and i told her i was bisexual.She asked me questions about what made me wanted to do that and we became friends.we were friends before and we talked about everything.She would always want me to go out with her.I never would hang out with her.She told me how she came out the closet that she has been with women before.Then she would always tell me how she would do it with these girls and i finaly gave in and met up with her to do it.We did it on sep2007and she liked it and would always ask me when were we going to do it again.i would avoid her then i asked her to have a three some wit me and she brought her boyfriend in and she said i was the only person she would bring in to have a three some with her boyfriend.We did it like three seperate days but more than once in that day.Her boyfriend started liking me.After that we did our own thing and she told me she was into me and falling for me and i moved close to her and before i moved things were going good and and things were doing good once i moved by her.then we would be back and fouth on and off.then we final broke up.she doing it with other girls and i am too but i ask her if she dating them.she told me no cause she tryed it wit me and it didnt work.she always telling me when i do things that thats why we arent together now and if i didnt do whateva that we would still be together.we would go like a month or so without talkin from being mad and she still would come back saying she has feelings for me and that she hasnt got a girlfriend.she says she doesnt want a girlfriend.we still hang out and do things that we did when we were together and we have sex and when we go throw things and fuss she makes it a purpose to call me and talk to me about what happen.she calls ne and text me regular to talk to me. so what should i do to get her back?do you think she wants me back?what can i do to make us not fuss?do you think we will get back together?i need advice.

Why did you two break up? Who did it?

This sounds like a friends-with-benefits situation. Seems like she's interested if she keeps talking with you, but maybe she's unsure about getting back together again. I would let her know that you're interested, but talk to her and see what she wants out of this.

she broke up with me.we broke up cause she said i lied to her.i told her how i feel she says im jumpin the gun talkin bout trying to make us work and we havent even been friends since we broke up.what do you think now?

She said she's not ready. Trying to make her talk won't help things. I wouldn't want to risk making things worse. Give her some time to think.

What was the lie? If you could explain this and what led to the breakup, I could get a better idea on how to guess what she's thinking.

just last nite we got into it cause i told her how i felt and she said i ask her the same questions over and over and so she got mad and she droped me off and i was tryin to talk to her and she tells me that i should go that she was about to call somebody on her phone.then she tells me to leave out her car.she called me at 9am and talked to me about it and wouldnt let me talk like she was talking over me.then she called me not too long ago again and talked to me again about it and she said she wanted to see if we can be closer friends and said we cant cause i ask her the same things over and over.i told her she didnt tell me about us tryin to be closer friends.im like if she didnt think she was wrong and had that on her mind and knew she was guilty she wouldnt have called me back a second time talking about the same thing.what do you think?does she feel guilty and knows she is wrong for doing me like she is and that's why she called me back a second time?do you think i been on her mind all day?

You didn't tell me what the lie was.

She doesn't want you to ask questions but she hasn't told you to stop talking. I don't know what she's thinking, but pressuring her isn't going to give her time to relax. If she's comfortable being friends, then try that. Don't scare her away!

i told her that i wanted sumbody to come ova when i was at work one day and i was just doing that cause i was bored and she ask me where i was at.i told her i was leaving with my friend and she said was i sure and i said yeah and she said she was outside my apartment all that time.and she came and picked me up later.i was somewhere else then i wasnt really at home i just told her that so i didnt haveta deal with her.now she says she wanted to be closer friends and i made her not want that but im like when were she going to tell me?and she said she did i told her she said friends.friends and being closer friends are two diff things arent they?

Uh, yeah, "closer friends" sounds different from "friends." It seems like she's still interested. Just avoid lying again and see what happens.

the only problem where having now is when i ask her something or tell her how i feel she gets mad.So i should not ask her anything and see where that gets me.She got mad when we went to the club with her and dance wit a woman and i put the woman name and number in my phone and i left my phone in my room with her and one day i was putting a number in my phone on my block list and i saw the girl from the club name on my block list and i didnt put it there and nobody else wouldnt do that cause they dont know her name.she is the only person who knows who she is