My ex cheated and I asked him to leave but now I feel bad

My ex and I had a few arguments in the past about his cheating ways. I have done some things to find out what he was doing but I know about his cheating for awhile. Hes even called me Inspector Gadget a couple of times I even pretended some days that it didnt exist because I loved him so much. He was different from other men that I have dated because he made sure that everything was okay at home. Suck as paying his bills, helping out in the house and we.. Well I enjoyed having him around. One night I got tired because of the lack of sex and asked him to leave. He did leave the next day, and Im feeling like its my fault. The bad thing is that I still want him back. We were together 2 yrs.

Question is Will we get back and better after this???

Or just get over it and how??

yea i found out that i had a cheater to and he denies everything but i did my research and found everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie so i am pulling myself away and he keeps calling like i am stupid that is what hurts the most i dont want to keep nobody that doesnt want to be kept so since he has all these other women why does he want to keep harrasing me

Tis sad, tis because ultimately, we lie to ourselves that we can handle this wee little thing because we love him so much.

Tis a complete package this player does and will do for years to come.

It was inevitable anyway.

Many women believe men are different.

That is true, but not in a way you women think.

What some men use is a womens naivity to have his cake and eat it too. And since we are women, we believe this.

Always believe a cheating man is bad man. He is not broken, he is selfish and finally feels it his privledge since he has hooked you and to now live, his privledged life style.

Period.

These men do not walk up to you and announce their ideals. They slowly, over time, reveal.

And yes, they are also masters at letting you believe it's your fault.

A man like this knows how to punish so you let him do what he pleases.

It's always about him and how you have wronged or hurt him.

He isn't hurting at all.

I'm sorry this won't help your pain but it will save you years of future pain and wasted time if you should choose to absorb what I have typed and learn it to be truth.

You did a good thing by making him leave, and if he left it is enough proof to show you that he really didn't care enough for the relationship, besides showing it in his infidelity but now by actually leaving when you asked him too! I wouldn't run after him, if he wants to go back to you, let him do the chasing and the begging, and if he does at least its good for your self esteem. But he has proved himself well. Oh and by him being a good man by paying his bills and helping around the house, trust me there are men who do the same and are also faithful.