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So it has been about a month since my girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me. We still love each other and just recently got together to talk because we missed each other..and it went a little bit to far. :S
The reason she broke up with me is because her parents basically control her life and based on the fact that we were sexually active, her mom did not think that we were in love, but she simply was with me based on my influence. She knows it is not true and does love me, but is trying really hard to force herself out of love because it hurts to much. It hurts me to know she is doing this and i cannot do the same and will not
She is everything to me and would do anything for her. I have never really been close to my family, but she is extremely and she rely’s on them allot and has her whole life.
She is convinced that the other night was a mistake because she had hurt me again restating that we could not be together because of all the little things and problems..even though it was so amazing and she was more affectionate than ever before. It is just the most amazing feeling when i am with her and vice versa. i just don’t think i could see her with anybody else or it would hurt too much.
We still talk all the time but i just want to be with her more than anything, and i know she wants it to, but she cannot lose her family…i have done nothing wrong, and neither has she, but things are going down hill very fast.
I just want things to go back…Any advice or anything at all would be helpful. If you need more detail don’t hesitate to ask.
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How old are you guys?
There is a saying that If you love someone let them go.
You know.. we almost had the same situation but, mine was more deep. Mine was 3 years. I was not accepted by her parents. Anyways this is all about you not me.
So my advice to you is spend time with your friends try to avoid her call, or you don’t call her. But before you do that you need to write a letter atleast so she would have an understanding why you are acting like that. (meant ignoring)
You know when we have a relationship, we tend to get use to them. Our brain addop activities, moments, smiles, sadness, in any single situation. But when they go we feel sad and we want that back. right? You have to be fortunate to feel that. You know when your heart is in pain due to break up, just feel, it beats normal but the feeling is diff. You have to pass that level so when your heart healed it becomes more stronger. Give her time let her breath ok. Remember everything happens for a reason. I got over my ex for 14 months. Without me seeing anyone. It was hard very hard. But now I am over her. You know at the beginning of our breakup she said she love me so much to death. I did believe her, but now I don’t know. Love means happiness to our heart. I hate when people say I love you goodbye.
Anyways… hope you will wake up. because right now you are dreaming. That is how I look at it. By failing relationship, is actually learning process and making your heart stronger.
good luck to you.
you know..the same thing happened to me, but the other way around…
i love my parents..and i had my mistakes in my relationship with her so i listened to them and broke up with her…it’s been 2 weeks since that (i broke up with her the next day after our 8 month aniversary). i’m the extroverted type and she is a lot more introverted…but i love her to death…today has been a really bad day for me..i realised how much she means to me and how much i miss her..
i really love her…she (i think) still loves me a whole lot…my mom hates her(for how/who she is)…her mom hates me(for breaking up with her)…i just…sometimes can’t see how we can be togheter anymore…but i love her so much…
oh, i’m almost 18 and she is almost 17…so it’s really complicated…
now, i’m really sorry i had to post this here…i really hope someone sees this and could help me out…
Wow, your situation sounds remarkable similiar to mine.
My GF I’ve been with her From May 2008 to Jan 2010. Prior there were two breakups (all of her doing)
But this third breakup seems to be a continuation of the second one just four months prior (still hadn’t healed completely from that)
But this time I think she broke up with me to keep the peace with her mother and sister that moved into our 1bd apt in sept 09 (we lived in it just me and her from Apr 09 I moved out early in October - the second breakup and reconciled later that month)
The presence of her family kept tension and interfered with out chemistry together. I could only see her on weekends, and only in what was once our bedroom.
A few weeks prior there was major evidence that she loved and needed me so much, and I was going to be there for her. Then one weekend everything seemed fine. We had an argument about her not flushing the toilet because she didnt’ want to disturb her family in the livingroom that night. Somehow that led to her ending it. Which didnt’ make sense to me. I was frustrated and confused, thinking it was a phase. Here I am three months later nearly and no change.
She told me her feelings were changing and she didn’t have the same feelings for me. And at first I’m thinking what I could have done wrong, such as her saying I failed to understand her emotionals, feelings and her mind, which may have been true, but I was trying. Then I thought that didn’t make sense after all the signs of her saying how much I still mean to her. Her feelings are still there. But she is supressing her true feelings for me I believe so that she won’t need me to be in that apt where the tension continues. I think she felt bad about herself, and the tension made her feel the relationship wasn’t fun, sweet, or desirable. And often talked about not wanting to bring me in the middle of it. Now she’s kinda advoiding me despite us both being our own best friends. I don’t know how she’s doing it. I tried to ask her out of a friendly date after not contacting her for 4 1/2 weeks and she considered but then declined. It’s greatly affected me and I’m struggling with it too. I wonder if she’s going to come back to me when her living situation changes. I’m in a situation where I don’t have any friends, choice of women, faith, inspiration, job, car, or money, so there is no way for me to get over her, I truly believe we are destined for each other, and I can’t imagine myself with another woman without thinking of her, but I guess I’ll have to try.
Sumtime attitude put d person down
Don’t let ur attitude to loose things
Dude, I understand you, My ex girlfriend broke up with me and move to a whole another state then months later calls me and tells me she still loves me.. I just believe we needed time apart but her moving, Well didn’t see that coming.. But in the end it was to late for us, Her moving really did us in.. Did I make mistakes Yes, I may of not been there when she wanted me but I was always there when she needed me. The true is I still love her, I don’t know if I ever stop.. She was my first & my first love and you never forget that,, But life move on, I never think to myself she’s the only one for me because it’s not true, There are always someone who will love you better..ok You just have to find them.. Please never lose Hope for anybody with a broken heart.. Onelov- LEO
My advice is tell her that you love her and that if her family really loves her then they will support her with any person that she loves….and you two may just need sometime to grow…..she probably hurts alot so much to the fact that she might not be strong enough to start it again with you not yet anyway…..if she loves you there will always be a way you can work it out with her. me and my ex gf were exactly the same exactly i am actually glad i found someone going through the samething. she needs to be able to tell her family that she loves you and that its her decision if she loves you or not and that she has the right to not be berated of harassed or lecured or put any sort of stress by her family from being with you thats not what families are for if you truely make her happy they should be happy with that, and not upset that she isnt with someone "they like or want". to be honest my ex girlfriends parents hated me you know why? i told her if you love me and they dont like us F.U.C.K. them they should be happy for you that you are so happy with me not jealous or envious like your mom was probably….. tell her that you will wait for her dude tell her that you will always be there for her if she ever needs you and say that i know you probably arent ready but i can wait for you if you need me to because i am not going to give up on you. dude my gf recently told me she loves me but isnt strong enough to be with me yet and i told her i will give her her time and wait for her because i love her with all my heart and if i want her i will wait for her to love me at her fullest…
i hope this helps if you need more help heres my email: skosmogang@hotmail.com i am always there to help another person with a broken heart cause i wish i had someone to guide me when i was hurting…