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So it has been about a month since my girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me. We still love each other and just recently got together to talk because we missed each other..and it went a little bit to far. :S
The reason she broke up with me is because her parents basically control her life and based on the fact that we were sexually active, her mom did not think that we were in love, but she simply was with me based on my influence. She knows it is not true and does love me, but is trying really hard to force herself out of love because it hurts to much. It hurts me to know she is doing this and i cannot do the same and will not
She is everything to me and would do anything for her. I have never really been close to my family, but she is extremely and she rely’s on them allot and has her whole life.
She is convinced that the other night was a mistake because she had hurt me again restating that we could not be together because of all the little things and problems..even though it was so amazing and she was more affectionate than ever before. It is just the most amazing feeling when i am with her and vice versa. i just don’t think i could see her with anybody else or it would hurt too much.
We still talk all the time but i just want to be with her more than anything, and i know she wants it to, but she cannot lose her family…i have done nothing wrong, and neither has she, but things are going down hill very fast.
I just want things to go back…Any advice or anything at all would be helpful. If you need more detail don’t hesitate to ask.
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How old are you guys?
There is a saying that If you love someone let them go.
You know.. we almost had the same situation but, mine was more deep. Mine was 3 years. I was not accepted by her parents. Anyways this is all about you not me.
So my advice to you is spend time with your friends try to avoid her call, or you don’t call her. But before you do that you need to write a letter atleast so she would have an understanding why you are acting like that. (meant ignoring)
You know when we have a relationship, we tend to get use to them. Our brain addop activities, moments, smiles, sadness, in any single situation. But when they go we feel sad and we want that back. right? You have to be fortunate to feel that. You know when your heart is in pain due to break up, just feel, it beats normal but the feeling is diff. You have to pass that level so when your heart healed it becomes more stronger. Give her time let her breath ok. Remember everything happens for a reason. I got over my ex for 14 months. Without me seeing anyone. It was hard very hard. But now I am over her. You know at the beginning of our breakup she said she love me so much to death. I did believe her, but now I don’t know. Love means happiness to our heart. I hate when people say I love you goodbye.
Anyways… hope you will wake up. because right now you are dreaming. That is how I look at it. By failing relationship, is actually learning process and making your heart stronger.
good luck to you.