my girlfriend left me and i want her back

My girlfriend and i had been dating for 15 amazing months, we were the icon of "relationship" to all of our friends. we spent everyday together, almost like we lived together, because we were going to move in together. one day i saw her myspace and text messages to another guy in an inappropriate conversation ( the guy obviously liked her) i didnt say anything until one night she was texting him till 2 in teh morning in front of me. i blew up and she denied the fact the guy liked her and that she liked him.
we then.... took space because she claimed she needed space to figure out what she wants and sort out issues in her life (her mom passes away recently)

during the whole time of space i acted like a desperate fool, never giving one day of real space. and she was talking and hanging out with the guy the whole time.

now broke up, my desperate acts have scared her off and i have made myself seem sooo desperate (this is my first love) wishing it would be my last love. still she says she Loves Me and theres chance that we could be together. but she now spends the night at that guys house.

what do i do? i want to break up with her and have her realize that there is no chance if shes doing the things shes doing. i love her still and never want to lose her but i feel like i am.

She says she "loves" you but she is doing everything with this guy. You did not scare her off: She chose to do this by having going along with what the guy did. "Space" doesn't explain anything if she's with someone else.

Have you two talked about what's been going on since she went to that guy's house? When you say "spends the night," do you mean one time or every night?

she says she hasnt done anything, just talked and that theyre just friends. shes lied before about other things and she has a history of cheating and breaking hearts. i believe her though

still theres no sign that she will stop hanging out with the guy, that my actions have made getting back together impossible and trust issue on both sides is messed up. i dont see how it could work. i think i need to break things off clean and let her do what she wants

i love her still but .............what do i do

Even if she isn't cheating on you, she knows that she's acting in a bad way, especially given her history. You have already tried to settle this with her, so just wait for her to decide what to do next. Trying to get further involved would just get you blamed for what she does.

okay well now shes just getting more involved with the guy, should i just cut my losses and move on? i keep having the urge to say something to her, tell her off and move on

Just leave her alone. To "tell her off" is not worth the trouble.

man my girlfriend(first love hopefully last love) dumped me 5 days ago but we had sex lastnight...and now i pushed my luck with my desperate act to get her back and she said if i txt/phone her she will call the cops....


i wanna die..

thats rough...give her space...thats all you can do unless you want to get arrested with a restraining order...

dying is not going to solve anything...remember u lived majority of your life without this girl and with time you will heal and learn to smile...take this as experience...which will make u stronger