my girlfriend of 2 years and mother of my son left me 3 mont...

my girlfriend of 2 years and mother of my son left me 3 months ago, she wasnt happy living away from her friends and family and we started to argue a lot during last 6 months of relationship. i love this girl and really know a lot of the arguin was down to me taking her for granted.
since the split she has moved into emergency housing near her friends and family(1 hour away) and we talk every day on the phone, mostly initiated by her. she says she loves me and when we are good we are amazing but when we argue we are so stubborn it is hell. i do agree with her but think we need to be together to work through our problems, she says we need to be apart and it make take months to rebuild our friendship before we even start our relationahip again. her take is that she loves me and wants us to be a family but our relationship does not work anymore. i constantly tell her i love and miss her and she skips the issue. what do i do?????

Same thing mate exsept we are both 18 and my son is 9 months, And she wont let me see him as i went to her mums house and kicked down the door because they wouldnt let me see him and i miss him ** them ** Like hell. And its so bloody hard to let go