my husband has costanly cheated on me throughout our marriage and to make it worse it was with white women. Now when a black man cheates on his wife with a white woman that is a big No No! he did this a lot while i was pregnant and all. I was a very good wife I cooked, cleaned, took care of the kids and worked. At wich he took it all for granted. I have had three very good men to come across my life that all were let go because this piehole when he saw that someone else was interested ( after we broke up he would do this),he would come with this show and run them off . But then he would go back to the same thing. We dated for 6 years before we were married. For two years he never told his people and he took and continued to take the girls he was dating while we were married to meet his mother, sister , and father. All while we were married. Then to ad insult to injury I got him a apartment in my name so that he could have a place closer to work. So i thought ...I told him that he wouldnt have the place long cause the truth was gonna come out! It did . In the form of a felony charge that he got for leaving our daughter in his apt by herself while he went on a date.Our daughter came outside and one of the neighbors got her and called the police and it has gone down hill from here....Then to add insult, when I went to clean the apartment out the girls hair was all over his bed!! I'm black with short black hair . The bed was full of Long blond hair.I thought I was gonna go into labor right then..But the table have changed and he can't stand it.
This came in January 2008 and my God if I knew that he was for me I would have left him a long time ago. We had just moved into our new place and it was income tax time(you know how we do during that time!!! New Furniture!
). So i took mine and bought the bed rooms and dinning and my husband was suppose to get the livingroom and the other t.v.'s. Few weeks after he came to me and told me that one of his relatives needed a place to live . Being the christian that I am I said " sure". So his relative moved in and when he came to my bedroom door...He scared the heck out of me.! I said " Boy! What the heck have you been eating?!. Immediatly my hus band came and closed the door and shut me in my room. Three days later my husband all of a sudden moved out!! he got his return and Skied up..child. yeap you guessed it he went and laid up with a lady until they didnt get along anymore the he wanted to come back home.But he didnt have a home cause it was taken by his relative...I have never been showed so much love from a man! He treated me like a queen, He brought me flowers, He made me laugh, He helped with the bills, My kids, all kinds of things and he would always tell me that he was there to take my pains away. my husband showed up on my B-day and brought me a necklace and chain.I gave it back cause I did'nt want it. It is now June 28,2009 . My husband is here and we argue just about every day and his mother My husband)All have the nerve to call me a slut cause I don't want to be with my husband anymore and because I am still dating his relative. I want a divorce and he don't want to give me one.Do you think I am wrong for what I chose? I know what the bible says.. But i was the wife in all aspect of the word. He cheated and it was alright al long as his family saw him do it and now that the tables have turned, they can't stand it. Don't you think I deserve better. I just want to be happy before I die.
