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Long story short, dated this girl for five months. We got really close, only had one major argument and patched things up. Over christmas she goes home (lives abroad, studies here) and there's a bit more distance, but I knew she liked her space and always replied to her texts and messages. Then, suddenly, she gets back and 'needs to talk'. We all know what that means
We break up - I handle it okay, I reckon. A tear of shock and loss. After 5 days I texted her to ask if she wanted to meet to clear the air, she said yes, in 2 weeks time. After 2 weeks I text her to say 'hey, when d'you want to meet'. After 4 hours she replies 'no' and follows this with 'I'm over it. A meeting would be boring and awkward. It was time, I'm not angry with you.' (wtf, what had I done to make her angry!)
So, I leave it. Problem is, first whenever we pass in the street, she blanks me despite my smiling and saying 'hi'. She said she didn't want things to be awkward but they are. Anyway, I do owe her a bit of money, so I was gonna leave a cheque with a short note saying 'hey, sorry I forgot, hope you're well, just to say I don't want things to be awkward between us!'
Anyway, a roadblock has appeared. Last night she dleted me off facebook after 3 weeks No Contact. I was a little confused but I found out a friend of mine had run into her and her best mate and told them that I said her best mate was a tw*t. Well, the anger's understandable, now. He apologised to both of them, (he was drunk at the time) and now she's deleted him as well.
Is there really anything I can do to remedy this? We do the same damn course, live in a small town, and worst of all, I need to get some books off her to help with my work. I'm not gonna pretend I wouldn't like her to come back, I get the impression she decided to break up after getting cold feet. But she's been so distant of late I've no idea if there's any point.
What d'you reckon!?
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