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Markharry
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Posted 3 Months, 2 Weeks ago #1
My marriage fishished last year I met a new partner somone I had known for a number of years, but never tried for a relationship as I was already married. When I met her she was in a bad financial state and had a drug problem. I never pushed for a relationship it just happend. She had split from a previous partner with two children. After a year of supporting all of them financially. We emigrated and started a new business. A business we were both suppoesed to work on. This got left to me to oragnise. She then fell pregnant, we were both getting on really well up until this point. She then after about three to four weeks in started to suffer from her pregnancy hormones. Depression anger. She didnt want to spend anytime with me. If we did spend time together she would slag me off etc. Yet earlier in the year she wanted to get married to me. Since falling pregnant I have been called every name under the sun. I have been accoused of taking advantage of the situation with regard to last year. She has attempted to get back wit her ex. Told everyone on facebook that we have split up. I have had to leave the country recently for personal reasons. Since then it has gone from bad to worse. I have told I will no longer working for the company due to her treatment and lack of work or input into it. I left her with an ultimatum that I would still be there to support the child and would be looking at moving somewhere else in the new year to another country. She wanted me to work for the company still pay maintence and take 20 percent of the earnings. This is not something I am willing to do. I have supported her and her children both emotionally and fianacially for the last year. I have worked so she can get over her problems. She keeps requesting that I send money something I am not willing to do. She has also informed me that she is splitting up with me this was in the last two days as I like the film a clockwork orange and I have a strange facebook photo. I have not taken advantage of this women I have been there to support her. What do I do now I feel like I have run out of options and its killing me emotionaly. I feel like knocking it on the head,but for the sake of the baby I want to try and remain as a family.
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Posted 3 Months, 2 Weeks ago #2
its killing me emotionaly
That's the gist of it. Everything else is just describe how she's doing it to you. If you want to take care of the baby, fine, but don't force yourself to be unhappy because that will be a strained relationship.
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Posted 3 Months, 2 Weeks ago #3
then what do you suggest after all I have tried everything. This women is impossible. I dont want to walk away without trying but then I dont want to be treated like somthing you step in
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Posted 3 Months, 2 Weeks ago #4
Arrange to be there for your child as a parent but not as a spouse.
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Posted 3 Months, 2 Weeks ago #5
All I have 2 say is wow
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