Seperated and husband is a jerk - bringing other women around our daughter

Me and my husband have been seperated for almost a year and will be filing for divorce in August. Recently, he brought his new girlfriend around my daughter and rode her around with them. We had the discussion before not to bring other people around our daughter for respect and not to confuse her during the time of what we are going through. As most kids only want their moms and dads to be together and new people in the equation would only cause confusion and sadness. What is my recourse what can I do to make sure this doesnt happen again. I'm afraid that with everyone friend he comes in contact with he will bring them around her - women in and out. What do I do.

What did he say during the discussion?

he said he would'nt do that but evidently so that she would come back to tell me not thinking about how she would feel about it he did it anyway - he's very inmature

It seems if you alone telling him it would be bad for your daughter to be rushed into a "my dad has a new girlfriend" scene..your daughter needs to say something to him. That of course depends on how old your daughter is. But I believe it would be much more effective if your daughter herself told him that she did not feel comfortable with the idea. At least not yet.

If your daughter is too young than I suggest presenting your case to him in a non-jealous fashion with your main argument as your daughter and how since you havent even legally gotten a divorce to please spare her the dating drama

My daughter is only 6 and she doesnt feel comfortable really going against anything her dad says or does. He hasnt even called her all week since the last incident that it happened and I told him it was not appropriate. Since then people have told me that him and my mother in law and the girl have been riding around together which is fine but if it were with my daughter I would have an issue. I just dont know what to do but try to talk to him again but he's so immature I'm not sure if he will care.

Try that and post what happens.

It seems all you can do is try to talk to him.

My Husband and I seperated 6 mos. ago, and hopefully will be divoced next mos. We have a 20mos old son. I was devastsated when the reality set in that eventually he will be bring some other woman around my child...even though i wouldnt mind him seeing someone else, it hadnt yet sunk in that this would be my reality, another woman around my child!....my husband too, is immature and a jerk and I know the frustration, but just try to remind him that you want him to be happy but ask him to please try to be respectful of your position as your daughters mother and that it is going to take some time before a "new" female can really fit into the "family" his time with his daughter ideally should be focused on her, but that will probebly not be the case, so just try to stay strong and keep open communication with your daughter about it, even though she is young, kids know more than we think. Just try not to project...best of luck