Single Mom dating a guy with no kids!

I have recently met this great wonderful guy who I have so much in common with. We hit off very well and I feel so great with him but recently he seemed to have distanced himself from me. This weekend my friend asked him what was going on and he told her that he really likes me and doesn't mind being just with me but that the relationship could never develop into anything serious because I have 3 kids. He doesn't mind one kid he says but 3 scares him. I understand him in a way because he is young, single and has no children of his own. Also he comes from a very opinionated family and I really think that is really what he is concerned about, what his family will think of this. I have not had a chance to really talk to him but I just want a partner not a baby daddy. Fortunetly my ex is very involved with our children therefore in my eyes there should not be a problem but I want my new guy to understand this. I want to know what to do because I really do like him and I think we could be good together if we could find a way to overcome this issue. I just want a chance with him to see if it can work out. What should I do???

If you've already talked to him about this issue, there's not too much you can do about it. He's not in that stage of his life(and for some guys, it'll never happen) where he's ready to handle 3 kids. That's a lot to handle. Maybe he wants kids of his own too one day. Leave a message for him and see what happens but if someone's ready, they're not ready.