So, I dated a guy for 2 months...that I knew barely back in ...

So, I dated a guy for 2 months...that I knew barely back in high school...I should say we're both much older now....and he was just recently divorced...2 months of major attention, him being here every second he wasnt working...he's gone for work weeks at a time....but right before Christmas, we got in a fuss over the phone....and he ended the relationship and wanted to just be friends. I couldnt do it.....I waffled between can and cant...and finally cant won out.

I make it a week and he pm's me "how are you doing?" What the crap? I make it another week and he txt me "Happy New Year this is my new phone number". I'm assuming he sent that to all his contacts.

What is this? How can a man go from acting crazy about you.....to done....unwilling to work anything out.....just done. And be so fine with it that he could easily be friends? I'm sorry...I had feelings invested...I cant sit across a table now and be "friends". And whats with the contact ???

Though he was interested enough to keep contacting you, he probably had his own waffling during that time. You fell for him too quickly when you barely got to know him for two months.

You mentioned "major attention" and "divorce," so maybe he had liked to get attention from you to get over his divorce.

If you want, you could contact him again, but it could be confusing.

What does this mean between you two then?

Oh, you two have had sex already. Well, I agree that you should put some distance then so that he isn't seeing you out of convenience.

Wow, the same thing happened to me, (older, we knew each other before from high school, hot and heavy then nothing . . . ) Except that I think he is now trying to get back with me. Maybe that is what your guy wants, and maybe he is just too shy to articulate it. For me, I am not sure what the hell is going on. But since HE broke up with me, I don't want to call to try to clarify it. I came on too strong before. I'm scared to screw it up again, 'cause I still want to get back with him. And if he can't figure out how to pick up the F-n-g phone, then he wasn't worth it to begin with.