Trying to make my boyfriend jealous

Well ok, so hears the story, Latley I have been seeing my boyfriend talk and eye other women. I mean i know men cant keep there eyes off of us, but hes got me, what else could he want. I am starting to feel like i am always having to be better than all these other girls, Serioulsly i mean i have considerd boob jobs, nose jobs, and anything else to get more of my boyfriends attention. I know that it is completly normal for men to go out to stripper clubs, but i just get left home alone in the dark, i mean somtimes he dont come home till past 3 in the morning. Oh and i forgot to mention, we live together, thats how serious this relation ship is, or was, its getting so hard. i feel like he is sick and tired, not to mention he is board of me. Ladies, and men, what should i do. because i am still inlove, with my beautiful once loving bofriend. thanks
- Darla

Well, a relationship is a 2 way road and it's not just about you. If you really feel that he doesn't care about you the same anymore, you should talk to him. Personally I don't think getting a boob job or a nose job would help a relationship. If someone is in love with you, they are in love with all the other reasons and not just some boobs. Otherwise it's just lust and that's not really a relationship, more of a fling. But talk to him. Communication is vital in a healthy relationship.

You should go out and have a good time rather than let yourself be left alone in the dark.

You should say nothing and give him a taste of his own medicine. When he comes home, let him come home to an empty house. Make him feel like u r out even if it is spending a night by a girlfriend's house. Only then he would realize how u feel by being put in that position. Eventually he will be the one to initiate conversation.

Do not act needy. men like a challenge

dear leave evrything on god if he d care about u then why u r caring about him plz wake up dear and let him do what he want i know what is meaning of love bcoz i also luv someone and same thing here also but i left evrything on god oneday he will realize meaning of true love godbless u

I don't think its right for him 2 go too a strip club. I would not allow that. But the men I date don't desire too go there. I think guys that go 2 strip clubs are perverts lol. That's probably why he looks at other girls. I don't think you should stay with him. He seems mean.