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Hi, it's been a couple of days since I created the topic. The break up happened over the phone. She was in Mass and I was in NY. Since last year, we were in a long distance relationship. She decided to break up with me over the phone 140 miles away! I was going to see her for one last time on Halloween; however, I manned up and texted her saying that I need to get through this by myself and that it will take some time before we could be friends. I also told her I found a job.
She replied saying that it is awesome I got the job, and don't be a stranger as I won't. A little background on her. Early on in the relationship, she told me that when she breaks up she doesn't stay as friends with them. For some reason, I'm the exception. Anyway, the next day I just wanted to say hi to her friends on facebook. At that point in time, I did not know she was talking to her friends about the break up. Her friends called her back notifying her about the messages.
She text messaged me why I messaged her friends. I did not reply immediately. She called me a few times but I did not pick up because I was at work. When I got home she called again. I picked up this time and we talked for an hour, which I was not planning on doing.
In that conversation, we talked about how I just got a job. She was sad because she waited for 2 years for me to change into a motivated man. We talked about the Phillies vs Dodgers game. She revealed that she thought about the times we were together at Citizens Bank Park. Both her and I are big Mets fans, and we have visted some ballparks. I think at one point in the conversation, she cried. She sounded sad the whole time we talked.
During the breakup she told me she did not have the same feelings towards me. Keep in mind she is in grad school working on her masters in exercise physiology. She is alone in Mass and hardly gets sleep and time to relax. She also revealed that I am an amazing guy, she cares for me, and misses me. She is torn between me as a person and my family. She just doesn't know if she can handle the issues she has with my family.
The conversation ended with the both of us wishing each other good luck.
Today I text messaged her it sucks that I can't cancel a brick with our names engraved to be paved into the fanwalk at Citifield. She replied with saying she will reimburse me half and I could discard the replica brick which I should be receiving in about a month.
What does this all mean? Does she love me?
