Want it work on it but how?

Hi, I am in need of your advice here.

My b\f and I split last week I made him move out because he broke a promise that he would stay clean. He has been through rehab but replapsed. I had a hunch he did but eventually found evidence and because of his job hours he did this while I was at work. I was trying to trust but he broke that.

I reacted in a really bad way and I know we can work on this if he is willing. We havent spoke since the day he left, though he kissed me dearly before he left. I was so angry I changed my phone number.

I want to email him but thought I'd come here first to ask how I should approach this issue with him. What should I say to him? I feel so lost right now I am afraid I will mess things up if I don't do it right. Should I do this or should I wait for him to email or contact me,( he does know where I live).

I will look forward to any help given Thank you!

Hi Chances, welcome to the forum

Well, if it is your decision to go on with the relationship you had eventhough he relapsed (and take the chance he might do so in the future as well) - then I think you should approach him first since you were the one chucking him out. However, think about it first. I would advise you to tell him that you care for him/love him but that your condition is that he first needs to get this habit away with...