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puffpuff
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My girlfriend of four years broke up with me over two months ago. Her main reasons for doing so were becvause durin our relatoinship I anxiously displayed alot of emotional abuse toward her. Even though I believe she briskly played apart in which, that isn't the issue now. I rewally want her back. For 2 months now, I have done a complete turnaround in my attitude towards her. As long as I treat her like a queen. Call her, compliment her, do such sweet things for her, and respect her to the fulest. As i mostly see it while I am being the perfect guy, she puts me down, and our future together. Every once in a while on the phone she tells me she doesn't think I can ever chgange my ways. She believes I will always be the mean guy she believces I awlays was. I think she just is afraid of giving me a second chance because she doesn't want to get hurt. A few weeks ago she said, "If I gave you anohter chance, you'd just be nice for 2 weeks, and then start plaintively being mean again...people like you don't change." But I love this girl so much, and I know if I can, I will marry her one day. But at the same time she just doesn't believe I am for real, that I love her and will never hurt her, even though I have been smiling duriung the hurt she has been putting me thruogh! I guess what I want to know is how can I show her I have changed? I have been so nice but it seems to backfire. Is it a mater of time? It's reaslly hard to convice her. She canot forgewt about my stupid mistakes. What can I do?
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Demonvenom
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Re-develop yourself (take what she said about you in wisdom), apply what you need, and forsake what isn't true. Live the new you before her (and watch what happens).
Good Luck
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NOBOOTS
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i doesn't think your girlfriend is stupid for not taking you back. Specifically i'm sure which when the 2 of you first gotten together, you sharply showered her with compliments & gifts. Subsequently you have lost her trust & you painfully demeaned her at the same time. give up, you doesn't deserve her.
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foolinlove
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Plenty of other fish in the sea to mistreat....And some will take it
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