we broke up over a month ago, and he has only contacted me a...

we broke up over a month ago, and he has only contacted me a few times. I have contacted him peridoically (about 8 times since breakup). How long does it take to get someone to want to see you again? When do you know it is really over?? Should i try again?

There's no specific time period.

The answer can depend on why you broke up, who initiated it, and so many other details about your relationship. Who contacts who first? What are the messages about? Are they by phone, email, text? From the limited info you have provided, it sounds like he's not interested any more (sorry).

Really need more info to offer any help.

Keep your chin up!

if he really hasn't contacted you chances are he is done. there really isn't anything you can do. i learned this the hard way. my ex girlfriend stopped contacting me as often. and when she would contact me it was usually for her benefit, meaning when she wanted to know something or wanted comfort in knowing i was still there. just go no contact and you never know, maybe he will try to contact you and fix things down the road. you can't really stress it too much. me and my ex girlfriend broke up in the beginning of september. we dragged on for a few months afterwards but i asked for her to leave me alone because i didn't want to have her contact me only when it was conveinent for her.

We broke up over he wasn't ready for super commitment, i was maybe clingy at times, but I want to at least have him talk to me. I tried to fix it. i want to try and be friends he wont talk to me now. how long can i wait 2 try and talk 2 him

thats the thing, there is no certain amount of time. HE has to be the one to make this work. you can't wait and then try again. he obviously knows how you feel. you can't make him change his mind, he has to do that on his own.

thank you. i know youre right. it is just hard to move forward i think when you feel like there are no answers and you have been treated a little unfairly by someone who you loved. He isnt a bad guy, so i want to try and trust that in time he will at least get in touch and give me some closure here.

Im in the exact position as you,and believe me,men have not got a clue about closure etc,its a woman thing..wE SPLIT UP 7 WKS AGO and hes even changed his numbers....So no contact at all..That says it all.after 4 yrs together,thats wot its came to..NO CONTACT..So what can I do...nothing??.