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Beezulbub
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Girlfriend of 7 years says she is moving out. She says she doesn't know if she wants to be with me. I've had jealousy issues and have drove her nuts the last 6 months. She was sending pics on the internet to guys. She stopped though but I didn't stop being jealous. I kind of lose it and break down. Then she says she'll stay with me. After she moves out she doesn't invite me over, come over, call or text me on her own. Then I suggest we break up until she can decide something. Now she tells me to be patient with her one day, and the next day she tells me to move on because she doensn't know how long this break will take. The last 2 weekends she has spent no time with me. What does she want?
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Last Edit: 2008/09/29 14:30 By Beezulbub.
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ayngel
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Beezulbub to me it sounds like she herself doesn't know what she wants. Are you prepared to wait until she does or move on with your life?
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simonsays1
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She's unhappy. She cares for you and still has feelings, but sounds like she's curious about other patures. Nothing you can do to change it. You'll only drive a deeper wedge into whatever feelings she has left.
Im sorry man. I'm going through the same thing right now. I've been through this with other women, so am not going as crazy as I had when I was younger, but I know how much it hurts.
The only thing you can do is move on until she comes back. Then decide if you still want her. Hang in there man!
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Lela55
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Well sounds like you both don't quite know what you want.. Maybe its just time to actually get some time apart from each other test out what else is out there in the world for the both of you.. and if this is ment to be it will be both of you will realize that with time.
Go out and have some fun don't strain yourself about it too much or else things won't look good for you when you are meeting other females who you might have some potential with.
Get yourself together and go out and have fun and let her do the same.
Good luck!
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Jewelman
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Sometimes it's best to be apart from each other without communication for a good month and see what happens. Then you'll know for sure where your relationship stands.
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