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O.K. maybe Win Back Your Ex - The Texts of DEATH is a bit of a dramatic title but it is for good reason. I often brush upon the topic of text messages in some of my articles but I feel they deserve a little more then a few lines.
I do not have to tell anyone but texting has become a way of life. Look at the progression. We used to just hand write letters to each other and mail them. Then with the advent of the Internet we could E Mail and Instant Message. Of course, this would require that both parities be at a computer with an Internet connection to send or receive a message. Around the same time we became a culture OBSESSED with our cell phones. Suddenly, 12 year olds need a cell phone and no one went anywhere with out them. Well now we have full keyboards, Blackberries and more advanced telecommunication devices. Yay Text Messaging!
The real thing of beauty, the best part about it is if you send someone a message, you don’t know if they have read it or not. On the other side…it is very easy to ignore a text. This has become equal to just ignoring someone if they were standing right next to you.
This constant communication plays a huge role in any relationship. Now a broken relationship, especally when one is trying to win back your ex, this becomes a weapon. A swoard or a gun can have similiar effects as a well worded text message. And what about the barrage of texts that one is able to send over a short period of time?
The point I am trying to make (yea its here somewhere) is this new and powerful tool and greatly help win back your ex or totally destroy any chances you ever had. Texting gives us an impersonal outlet for what we are feeling and it is a direct connection to the person who is making us feel that way. This is why it is so powerful and why it can have such horrible results if used incorrectly.
If you are actually trying to win back your ex and this goes for the guys and the girls, use your text messages wisley. Too many over a short period of time will just annoy the crap out of the other person. Totally ignoring them will just send them the message that you don’t care. A carefully worded and times message can do a world of difference.
Examples you say?
BAD Text #1
12:23 pm “John I know you are out with that skank. You are such an a**hole!!! I guess I mean nothing to you.”
12:26 pm “You cnt even write back to me??? why are you being so shady?”
12:30 pm “I F’n hate you! I hope you are having fun because I am going out now too!”
And scene! John was out with his buddies watching a ball game. Did not hear his phone in the ten mins she was texting. She now has drawn her own conclusions and cursed him off. How do you think he feels about her when he looks at his phone.
GOOD Text #1
12:23 pm “John hope you are having a good night. Just wanted to let you know i was thinking about you. Going out with Jenn for a little bit. Give me a call tommro”
This is a good. It makes him feel good about her and what she said, lets him know that she is still thinking about him but not obsessed and leaves the door open for him to get in touch with her. Also lets him know she is not just sitting home alone.
See texts can be an awesome tool to use to win back your ex.
I did a video today (in disguise haha) about how to win back your ex. I also have a blog called Winning Back Your Ex that has some of my other articles and some in your face advice that gets me plenty of hate mail. O well, Its worth it for all the mail I get when someone is helped!
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All I can say is WOW, this article is awesome! great job. Very insiteful and to the point. You are a good writer.
Sincerly Kevin
txting can be good and bad exspecially if you have broken up..you have your stages you go through whether its male or female..the sad begging txt-making you look pathetic and psyco..which you cant help because your hand just starts typing at that moment..lol then theres the drunk dialing txt..- totally just make yourself look like an idiot and it pushes them away even further..and theres the angry txt because there ignoring you- fuck you scum bag hope your whore dies..yea not good..really pushes them away..the cell can be dangerous and you lose the one you want.and then you have to just walk away because you dont want to look anymore stupid then you already have..
and then months go by and you heal and move on and your out on a date happy and content and as your at dinner you get a txt..hi how are you i was wondering if we could talk..i miss you..thats when the ignoring txt come..lol and the hard to get stage..Remember once you hit send its all over!!! so think before you txt or write it on paper and think to yourself should i really send this?..if you want your ex back theres only one way..and thats walking away and moving on..if you love someone set them free if it comes back its meant to be..
Once i was dumpped by my girl, we had a relationship of 5 years.. irs wasintense .. since we made love with one anothr..our marriage was even fixd..wen we compete our studies….
As i reached my 3 year of College (Medicine),..She started keepin distance wit me.. I cut my fingers and wit full blood i wrote a letr … i knew she wont understnd if i simply say things up.. thats why i decided to do something stupid like this…but the things went in the opposite direction.. she hated me more after that , coz she thot that i was a mad person..
She completed her course and went 2 another state,,,, and i went behind searching 4 her.. i dint had any no:..nothing.no address. i just had an idea that she was doing her mse ….in that state(Bangalore- In India)
i was soo depressed coz wen i go out of the hotels which i live in…it just reminded me of her.. it was like torturing me….
And soon as usual i startd makin frnds thr ,,,, alot of girls started divertin ma mind …
Then i went back to my home town, coz i left hope..
I felt suffocated thr in ma room.. ma mob,ipod, and computer are filled with her fotos..I took again a bus to bangalore…in the bus i met a guy who knew my girl.. i took my girl’s mobile no: from him,,,U GUYS WONT BELIV ME ,, 4 NXT 3months i dint hav guts 2 call in that number…
my hands wud shiever..
i gave that mob no: to othr frnds of mine.. they called her and asked her 1 question "How is your lyf without franklin"
she got stuck …..They gav my mob no: 2 her …i waited n waitd .. then atlast i got a call from her … She scolded me left n right… using bad words like hell on me.. i said n also request n begged her to meet me..Shw said that she wud meet me but that wud be the last ..She wanted 2 throw a last drama wit my love…
I went 2 the auditoriun where she had her college annual functions,,,,
She came and infron of 1000 of peaple she call my name…
She got in her knees and asked me sorry…. (it really seems like a movie story)but guys i promise its my life..
She needed tym for herself n i was happy that i kept some distance with her…
oh yes After that She came n hugged me n gave me a direct m2m…. i was … shockd , i dint hav evn any sounds comin out of my mouth..
This is my life…
MY GIRL’S NAME IS "Malie"—-Acordin 2 me–It is
"Ma Li’f'e "
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