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JuliieeBee
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Posted 1 Year, 7 Months ago #1
So my ex and I dated previously and he broke up with me for no reason (we dated for 3 months) so I didnt think much of it. I moved on and dated an asshole for about a year and we broke up it up now my ex ex (previous to the asshole) and I are interested in eachother again. He is my first as I am his ( I dont know if that made sense lol) and he didnt date after we broke up (a year +). We are really into eachother again and I just want to know..

Is it worth it to test the waters again?
The frist time I was not emotionally attached but now we are two years older and more mature.

I'm not expecting a marriage or anything too long term seeing I'm about to graduate soon.

Should I do it?! My mind says no my heart says yes.

OHH BOY haha
Last Edit: 2008/12/25 13:12 By JuliieeBee.
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Posted 1 Year, 7 Months ago #2
Well, the things I always ask about people who want to get back together is why did you break up in the first place and what are you planning to do differently this time around? I'm not opposed to couples getting back together but it has to be for a good reason and most of the time, it's about something that's not physical.

So let me know why you are getting back together other than you are into each other again. A feeling is just a feeling... doesn't mean you belong together. It's the biggest mistake most people make in relationships.
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JuliieeBee
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Posted 1 Year, 7 Months ago #3
To be honest thats my biggest battle.

Am I getting with him because I can

I want to?
OR
Am I getting with him because theres truly something there?

I know were are NOT going to be together forever but I understand what you are saying.

At the time of the break up he acutally didnt tell me untill a couple weeks ago (which is a year+ later). I fell for my last ex so quick I didnt care what reason my ex ex had. But he said at the time he didnt want a girlfriend.

Before I started seeing my ex again I was not into him at all and I made it loud and clear that I didnt want a relationship and no emotions were to be involved but now I wish I never said that..
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Posted 1 Year, 7 Months ago #4
Well, that's something you have to decide. But you shouldn't be with someone just because you can. If all you want out of this is a short term thing, make sure he knows it too. Sometimes you just know when someone is right for you. There's no formula to great love. Don't get into a relationship just because you feel lonely. You'll just get lonelier because you end up having a poor relationship with yourself.

Personally, I would just date around if I were you for now. When someone is right, you will know it.
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Posted 1 Year, 6 Months ago #5
You should get back together!
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