Yeah, It hurts..

Well heres my story... My name is Josh and im 19 Im in the U.S. Marine Corps and i have/was with the women of my dreams for almost 3 years. She was the one, beautiful inside and out fun outgoing just the best, she has seen me trough bootcamp and all that fun stuff and not we brake up... what happoned was she was hiding that she was texting some guy form work, when i asked her y she was hiding it she sed that it was b/c she didnt want me to get mad but promised she wasnt/ never did anything with him... i flipped! like y whould u hide something if theres nothing to hide and ur just friends? i mean i dont care if she talks to guys never have... but anywho no she is like hanging out with this guy everyday but says that she still wants me in her life and she still loves me and is not over me. i cant tell if shes blowing smoke thinking that will make me happy or what... but i want her, i need her! what can i do?

the first bad thing is her keeping from you that she was talking to someone...you are right, if there is nothing to hide why hide it?

secondly, did you ask her why she has been hanging out with this guy everday? try to figure out what her intentions are. Have you told her you don't like it? If things were so good I don't unerstand her sudden change of heart...

Josh, welcome to the forum

If you want her back you should ask her straight questions like (as vlee says) why she is hanging out with that guy now